How does one succeed in life?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

How do I know if he loves me? When he wants me to be his gf he make time for me and send me morning and night messages and done everything to melt my heart. Now I am his gf and he don't treat me that way now.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Hangs out with loser friends.

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

That's it for today.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Making more friends is a goal.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Ask yourself:

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

He said he loves me, but why is it difficult for him to leave his wife?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

What I need from you?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Why do people think Mirko is boring in My Hero Academia?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Does not procrastinate.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

Do not set goals—set systems.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.